Friday, September 19, 2025


 Hops from my walk the other day.  Apparently hops are female and naturally bitter, much like myself:)

I've had a cold for a couple of days, nothing terrible, cough and phelgm, hasn't slowed me down much thank goodness.  Charlie got a slightly shorter walk yesterday as a result, and I only worked in the yard for about 45 minutes.  I'm in the process of picking up all the tiny pears that are falling from our tree.  The pears are not big enough to eat, about the size of a small plum tomato.  Tedious work.  The front yard has tiny, tiny crapapples, the size of small grapes that need to be raked and picked up as well.

A couple of days ago, while walking Charlie, I spotted a man standing in the midle of the road, talking on his phone.  He was there for awhile and as I got closer, he still didn't move.  I went up to him and gently suggested he move to the sidewalk.  He told me to get away, then called me crazy, and then called me a Karen.  I yelled back at him, "I hope you get run over", because I'm classy like that.

As I walked away from him, he was still yelling at me.  WTF!  I was worried about the guy, wondered if he had dementia.  Turns out he was just an entitled, old, white guy.  If he's still married, I feel sorry for his wife.  I'm tired of entitled men who think the world is all about them as they cut you off in traffic, or tailgate you while you drive the speed limit.  

Of course I started crying as I finished my walk home, because strong emotions do that to me, make me cry.  The last time I came across a man standing in the middle of the road he was a very sweet man who was confused and had a head injury.  Nobody stopped for him, they just drove around him.  I stopped for him and called 911 and stayed with him until help came.

One man was indegenous, one was white.  That says a lot right there.

I'm so tired of the racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, homophobia, transphobia, and religious discrimination.  trump and his ilk (Danielle Smith in this province) promote this sort of division because it suits their purpose.  Give the people someone to hate, to blame all of their problems on, and they'll leave the politicians alone to pursue their own agenda.

It's horrible and I can't block it out because it's everywhere right now.

As I told Boud, I'm going to buy some wool and start crocheting again, and walk my dogs, because dogs are better than people.  And I'll work in the yard where nobody calls me crazy and my plants grow beautiful flowers for me.





31 comments:

  1. At this point, whatever works will do it.

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    1. I bought some wool and I'm going to crochet a bandana for my daughter's dog. I'm actually excited about it.

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    2. Yay, go you. Let us know how it goes.

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  2. I love you Pixie, this post touched my heart and I shared it with some friends. Thank you for blogging, you are touching others. ❤️

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    1. Thanks Cheerful Monk. I'm embarrassed, hard time with compliments.

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  3. old dick called you Karen. Huh. I cried over everything for several years after my brain injury. That's stopped. I understand crying when very angry, I did too. One day someone will be looking at their phone while driving and, you know.

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    1. One can hope. The irony would be so sweet if he was hit by a distracted driver on their phone.

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  4. The story about the man who called you Karen is infuriating, but also sad. We are all so quick to flame these days. I know I am. We are all carrying so much anger, I think, and there's no place to dump it appropriately so we just let it out at the smallest upset. It's crazy hard times these days. Being kind to ourselves is a first step to being kind to others, I think. But I could be full of shit.
    Still, doing the things that bring us peace have to be good for everyone.

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    1. I was shocked at his anger, which of course got my fur up. I'm not at my best when my fur is up sadly. I don't suppose any of us are. I know Charlie's not.

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  5. Standing in the middle of the road to talk on your phone is a very dumb thing to do and it was kind of you to intervene. I read that roadkill in Alberta is mostly deer. That idiot could have easily joined the herd.

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  6. It may be challenging, but I hope that experience doesn't deter you from offering help to someone in the future.

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    1. No, I'll be a nurse until I die, and if I see someone I think who needs help, I'll offer.

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  7. Just my opinion but he sounds like a big fat jerk.

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    1. He was, if by big fat jerk, you mean asshole, I agree:)

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  8. What a dick. Given the situation your comment was entirely appropriate, you had no way of knowing whether he was ok or not. You did the caring thing. If he couldn't understand, that's his problem, if he gets hit by a car it's on him. Don't give it another thought.

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    1. Definitely a dick. That's a hard way to live your life.

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  9. Hops are surprisingly gorgeous plants. Look at those petals, so neatly stacked up on each other. Nice photo. Yep, that guy was a dick.

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  10. During covid when the hospital failed to send the results of my mammo to my doctor he was furious, called them up and gave them a bollocking. Then he asked me if I found that people were more aggressive and just didn't seem to care any more. I told him I'd heard that, and that people seemed more aggressive but I hadn't experienced it personally. That man on the phone would seem to be a prime example - but don't worry, you're definitely not a Karen!

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    1. I was just so shocked that he had called me a Karen, and how off his understanding of what a Karen is. I should have called the police on him and been a proper Karen.

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  11. I think it was very kind of you to offer that man help. And what a jerk he was. It sounds like something that would happen here in the USA.

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  12. I laughed at your first paragraph. :)

    I've had exchanges like that with strangers turning unexpectedly confrontational, and it can ruin the whole day. I'm sorry that happened. Look at the bright side -- maybe he'll get run over!

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  13. One should always look on the bright side:)

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  14. You were kind and caring and he was an a-hole. There are so many who act that way--more than ever, due to what they see others getting away with. It makes me sick!

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    1. Makes me sick too. It's a sad way for the world to be.

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  15. I am so sorry that a stupid little man has made your day so ick. Crochet sounds like a civilised response.

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    1. I'm still trying to figure out the beginning of the crochet pattern:)

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