Yesterday the government of Alberta once again used the Nothwithstanding Clause to strip trans children of their rights to medical care. Trans children will not be allowed to seek medical help in postponing puberty to allow them time to explore their gender identity without irreversible physical changes occuring, or to use gender affirming hormone therapy to induce physical changes that align with a person's gender identity. Children under 18 have never been able to have any kinds of surgery related to their gender, they have to be adults to make that decision. However, parents, children and doctors could use hormone therapy to help the kids get through puberty. That option has been removed by the provincial government, a government that is run by closed minded bigots who believe everyone must think as them.
There are now 9 recall petitions circulating for Alberta MLAs, and they're mad about it, so is the Premier. She says that Albertans aren't using the recall legislation properly, the legislation that she pushed through. Oh the irony.
We had our last Skills Group yesterday. It was a day to go over what we had learned, what had worked, or not worked, and a chance to say goodbye. It's hard to believe it's been ten weeks already. We also found out yesterday that the docs are going to make a referral for Jack to go to a trauma treatment group. Children who have experienced trauma in their lives have a hard time with attachment. I'm thankful that we'll be able to access this resource and of course there is a part of me that is angry that Jack had to go through any of this. Can't change the past though, just do better going forward.
Pottery is done for this year. Yesterday I glazed my last pieces and when they come out of the kiln there will be photos. I'm curious to see how they turned out because I got a lot more adventurous with glaze this fall, I've been watching videos:) The ladies and I will continue to meet up as a book club though which I'm very happy about. I wanted a group of friends my age(ish) when I retired and I found one. And they're all interested in reading and pottery, does it get better?
We've had snow twice, just a tiny bit. It's supposed to be above 0C tomorrow, so hopefully the ice and snow will melt again. I have to walk Jack to the bus stop in the mornings and he slipped a couple of times on the ice. I'll have to check his boots when he comes home, to see if he needs new ones with better grips. I managed to stay upright. Yay.
I'm also working on Jack's quilt and it's coming along nicely. I'm almost done making the squares and then it just needs to be sewn together and taken to the quilting lady who quilts it for me. She has a long arm quilting machine.
And now for some funny.




As someone who lives in Ontario, I feel your pain. Our premiers make me sick. I am glad that Jack will get that referral.
ReplyDeleteI guess I knew Doug Ford was conservative, but is he as big an asshole as Smith? Asking for a friend:)
DeleteHonestly, he is very sneaky with it but he is trending in that direction!!
DeleteThe point is cruelty. We have the same problem in the states. We don't want to help others or allow others to receive needed care. We just want to be cruel.
ReplyDeleteCruelty seems to be the way of the world right now, and no shame about it either.
DeleteThe decision to ban puberty blockers is just immoral and wrong. Poor kids, they could use a little help. Are you familiar with yak-traks? They're good for snow and ice. They do need to be put on outside. I've never lived anywhere with winter like you get, and I am heartily happy about that because I am a weather wimp.
ReplyDeleteYes, I know about yak-traks. I have boots with special grips that work well, and I also have ice cleats.
DeleteThe decision to ban puberty blockers and hormone therapy is despicable.
What is happening in many places to our trans community is so sad and frightening. I'm glad that Jack will get those resources and hope it helps, although it seems like he is very attached to you and the Big Guy. (from what you write) That's wonderful that you found a group of friends and fellow readers/potters!
ReplyDeleteJack is attached to us, but he also isn't as much as maybe he should be.
DeleteThe pottery ladies are lovely.
I'm glad Jack is getting some help with potential attachment issues. It's terrible what governments all over the world are doing to trans people. Being trans is hard enough even WITH supportive communities, I imagine.
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine how hard it is being trans. I always think that becoming a trans woman is driven from within , or trans man, because who would choose being a woman in this world:) It's way too fucking hard.
DeleteI hate how this modern world is filled with anger towards the defenseless. So very glad that you have found a tribe to do pottery and reading with.
ReplyDeleteWay too much anger in this world, but I don't think it's new or modern sadly.
DeleteAs you know, trans rights is a very, very important issue for me. These people who are trying to deny the reality of trans people and their different medical needs and issues are ignorant, cruel, and close-minded. Why they are getting so much power in making the laws that are hurtful and damaging is beyond me.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad you are doing all you can to help Jack grow up as a happy, healthy, loving person.
Fear comes from ignorance I think. And if you can other people, it makes it easier to hate them and blame them.
DeleteI'm more and more glad Jack has you in his life. And that awful government, just gets worse.
ReplyDeleteIt is a shitty government, to say the least.
DeleteA hundred years ago, those awful eugenics laws were all the rage, including here in Alberta. Now any government, politician or person ever associated with those laws are condemned as monsters. Someday it will be the same for today's anti-trans laws. Too bad people can't get their heads out of their asses and understand that right now.
ReplyDeleteWW Cross was a fan eugenics, that's where the Cross got it's name from. It's also why the Cross changed it's name to Cross Cancer Institute. Smith will not be remembered well in the history books.
DeleteOne of our state governments has done the same with trans children's hormone etc treatment. It is pleasing to know politicians know a whole lot more about the subject than specialist doctors.
ReplyDeleteBtw, I've read you daily explanations about ADHD and found them very interesting. Knowledge is power for those with ADHD.
I think knowledge is power for everyone. It helps to know why you do the things you do, for me anyway. It also helps to know that you're not alone and not a freak:)
DeleteI don't know why they can't leave trans people alone. Is it fear? Of what? Because they don't understand it? That does not mean trans people should be punished, just because other people don't get it. I remember in the '80's caring for gay men with AIDS and how horrible people (including other nurses) were. Nobody chooses to be gay, or trans, they just are. Nobody chooses blue eyes, or brown eyes, or perfect pitch, or long legs, or short legs, it's just how you're born.
I'm so sorry you have idiots in government too, but I'm happy Jack will be getting help.
ReplyDeleteI'm sad we have idiots in government too. I'm angry and frustrated too, but I can only do so much.
DeleteAbsolutely delighted that Jack can go for this treatment. I am sure you all will benefit from it.
ReplyDeleteTake care when walking outside on the treacherous roads!!!
I'm being very careful while out walking and have slowed down. Learning more about attachment and trauma will be helpful, and sad as well I'm thinking.
DeleteI think that being a teacher really helped me to understand what trans kids go through, especially during the middle school years. Some of the sweetest and kindest students I taught were trans kids. I just don't understand why there are so many people out there who want to make their lives more difficult. A couple of years ago I went into a restaurant for lunch and a young woman took my order at the counter. The woman mentioned my name and said that I was her teacher in grade 7. I gave a puzzled look, and the person said, "You may remember me as Evan, but now I am Mona." I instantly remembered Evan and then connected the facial features to this woman standing in front of me. I asked Mona how she was doing and she told me that she wanted to become a teacher like me. After our encounter, I thought back to when I taught "him", and I always knew there was something a little off with him. There was a sadness right behind his eyes. The person who greeted me at the counter was happy and engaging and was looking forward to becoming a teacher. I will never understand how all of this has become a political issue.
ReplyDeleteApparently the regret rate for trans people is extremely low, less than 1%. It must feel good to have your insides and outsides match. I'm glad Evan was able to transition and is happy now.
DeleteIs Alberta bent on emulating the US? Sheesh. I'm so glad you found a group of friends. I would really be happy if I could. This is a positive for Jack.
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