A very unhappy looking Bagheera giving me stink eye through a filthy window. Looking at the photo, I need to do some cleaning. She was convinced that she wanted to be outside, but it was cold and snowing yesterday, and she was not happy with the results.
It's spring break here which means it's lovely and cold and it's also snowing. Sigh. Poor Jack stayed home from camp yesterday because he had a fever, very congested sounding lungs, and lethargy. He had a very quiet day until about 3pm when he started to perk up. This morning he was excited to go back to camp.
Last night he lost another tooth. I convinced him to just pull it out instead of spending hours complaining about his loose tooth. He did pull it out and then the blood. He thought he was hemorrhaging, but in reality there was a little bit of blood on the kleenex which I told him to bite down on. We all survived and the tooth fairy visited last night.
Bruce from Oddball Observations died which made me cry yesterday. I'm thankful his granddaughters let everyone know that he had died and that he had died peacefully with his family around. It's what we all want and he's with his wife again but I will miss his Friday Funnies.
Two young pilots died at LaGuardia airport on Sunday and many people were injured. My ex-husband was a pilot with Air Canada and I always hate hearing about plane crashes. It was something I worried about when I was married to him, one of my fears. He was flying the morning of 9/11 and when he landed, he called to tell me that he was safe. I told him to rent a car and drive home, which he did. He always read everything there was to read about crashes. He told me that usually when pilots die, their arms are broken, trying to avoid the crash. I thought of those two young pilots, trying desperately to avoid the fire truck in the last few seconds of their lives and I cried.
I talked to my best friend yesterday. The friend who is expecting her first grandchild. There has been lots of back and forth between her and her daughter. The outcome, my friend is probably moving to Vancouver Island to be with her children. She's going to try it out first for a winter and then decide.
She's my oldest friend and I encouraged her to go. I don't want her to go and I will miss her like hell, but she also has cancer and doesn't have twenty years ahead of her. She should spend as much time as she can with her children and grandchild. We mostly talk on the phone or text, and only actually see each other in person a few times a year, she lives on the other side of Edmonton which is not that far, although she thinks it is:) I will miss her hugs though.
Right now the Bohemian waxwings are everywhere. There were hundreds in our trees the other night and I could hear their turds hitting the deck. They eat the mountain ash berries and then poop out the seeds. Apparently they poop every four minutes. With hundreds in the trees, there was a lot of pooping and lot of seeds hitting the deck. I called Jack out and he was impressed with the sound as well. I lead such a full life:)


Quite the range here - How can anyone not smile at the grumbly cat. Then sad news about the fellow blogger and those two pilots. Thanks for ending (see what I did there?) with the poop news. Those birds need less roughage in their diet.
ReplyDeleteThose birds mostly eat fruit and poop a lot. They even have larger livers to help them deal with all the sugar from the fruit and in the fall, they get drunk on fermenting berries and smash into windows.
DeleteThe only constant is change, they say. Not always easy or welcome, but there ya go.
ReplyDeleteI hate change! Unless it's for something better:)
DeleteIt's never ending, isn't it?
We do understand one another's full lives! With technology your friend moving will not make much of a difference for you both. I didn't know this blogger but from the recognition he is receiving on blogs I wish I had.
ReplyDeleteBird poop. I'm writing about bird poop! And I'm going to vacuum today. I know, try not to be jealous.
DeleteI liked his sense of humour. It was gentle and never mean. He also liked puns and groaners.
The poopfest made me laugh--although what a mess! I will also miss Bruce terribly. He was a reliable blogger, commenter and friend who always had an interesting take on things. He often gave me perspective on issues that were bothering me. People have to do what's best for them, but I know you'll miss your friend. I've had a few move away and it's been difficult to adjust to their absence. That plane crash at LaGuardia was so tragic. John always does a lot of research on plane crashes too; he was only ever a small plane pilot but has a lot of knowledge of aviation from his 40 years at Boeing. Glad Jack is better and back to camp!
ReplyDeleteThe strange thing is, I never noticed until last year how much they pooped, or the sound the seeds make hitting the ground. Probably always busy working or doing something. I get outside a lot more now that I'm retired.
DeleteI will miss her lot. I hope everything works out for her and her kids.
What a life in the fast lane! And for your listening pleasure the percussion of bird poop landing. Those birds just live for pleasure.
ReplyDeleteLife in the fast lane? You betcha!
DeleteWhen isn't poop funny? Asking for a six year old.
I noticed that photos of the two pilots who died were sometimes very different -- goddamn AI bullshit.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about your blogger friend. And about your in-person friend who may be moving. I know we have to be flexible enough to adapt to change without hurting ourselves, but some perfectly valid feelings are so intense as to be psychologically painful and those are the ones I struggle with. Some emotions, I wish I could just turn right off.
-Kate
The good thing about emotions is that they pass, just like the weather. But also like the weather, bad weather seems to hang around longer. I always call those weather systems that just hang around, dumping snow and rain in great amounts, a mother nature swirly.
DeleteThe poor families of those pilots, seeing it played out over and over and over again on tv.
The Air Canada disaster was heartbreaking. I especially feel for the air controller who realized his mistake too late. As a pilot from another plane said when the controller said he had messed up, he had done the best he could. He was grossly overloaded, but that won't be much consolation.
ReplyDeleteI was responsible for the death of a patient, if could have been reversed but the family did not want that, you carry it with you for the rest of your life.
DeleteYour cat is out there freezing, what do you expect, smiling and purring? If she's anything like mine we're she probably demanded to be let outside. So there's that.
ReplyDeleteTwo of best friends have recently moved away and now I am on the other side of the plant. This is where the social in social media comes in. In my now almost three months with the grandchild we've had the tooth fairy come twice, but we also had the slapped cheek or fifth disease virus and too many bruises and cut knees to count.
Life is hard for kids. And cats
She did demand to be let outside and then she complains bitterly when the weather does not meet her expectations.
DeleteI can't imagine having my teeth fall out, even though it did happen but such a long time ago. It's pretty crazy when you think about it.
I'm so glad that you're getting to spend this time with your grandchild. It's not what you expected but it is a wonderful gift.
Your cat looks very cross.
ReplyDeleteIt was sad news about the pilots. It sounds like it was instant, which slightly consoles me.
That is sad about your friend moving away, but it might be very good for her.
The cat was deeply unimpressed with both me and the weather. I do tell her to stay inside, but does she listen?
DeleteI hope those pilots died instantly.
It makes sense for your best friend to go and live on Vancouver Island. Would she be in Victoria? I liked that little town when we stayed there twelve years ago now. Now that you are retired - though you have a big job looking after Jack - I think you should try to spend more time with your friend before she leaves Edmonton. For example, you could visit The Art Gallery of Alberta together. When's the last time you went there? You could treat yourselves to lunch in Restaurant May which opened in 2021.
ReplyDeleteI have only been to the Art Gallery of Alberta once, for a Christmas party. It was underwhelming. Usually when we do visit, it's at her house. Because of her cancer and chemo, she is very immunocompromised and we both worry about her getting sick. It always seems I am to busy to visit, but you're right, I should make more of an effort.
DeleteTo answer your question, she would move to a place called Sooke, west of Victoria.
I love the pooping birds. That is a great photo of them in the tree. I'm sorry about your friend, both the cancer and the leaving.
ReplyDeleteI will miss her a lot. The pooping birds were amazing:)
DeleteI think you gave your friend good advice although I understand your sadness at the thought of her leaving.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure I've ever heard the sound of bird poop hitting the ground or a deck. But I sure do see all the dang little trees that sprout up everywhere from what they poop in silence.
It was the seeds in the poop making the noise, sounding like huge raindrops hitting the ground.
DeleteShe should spend as much time as she can with her kids and grandchild. Time is short.
Time is indeed precious.
ReplyDeleteThe older we get, the more we understand this.
DeleteIt is sad when a Friend moves away that you Cherish, but I do think your Friend is going for all the Right reasons and I know you want that for her too. That Cat, well, clearly going outside she realized was not a good idea. *LMAO at her expression*
ReplyDeleteThe cat was not impressed. She will be happy when good weather happens.
DeleteI will miss my friend a lot but I think this is best for her now, to be with her family.
My very close group of lady friends have dispersed all over in retirement. We have a video meeting every two weeks now, and it has been so nice still having them in my life.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds a wonderful idea. Thank you:)
DeleteOh Pixie, my son had to help cut those two young pilots out of the wreckage. His fire rig was the first on the scene. I couldn’t bear to think of it, those poor young pilots, not making it home from a regular day at work. The air traffic controllers who made the mistake is inconsolable. A sad day all around.
ReplyDeleteI left a comment on your blog about this. It's heartbreaking for everyone and I hope you son is ok.
DeleteSo you'll have a bunch of mountain ash trees growing in your yard now?!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like it makes sense for your friend to move to Vancouver, as difficult as that will be for you (and probably for her as well). Glad Jack's cold didn't linger!
I hope I don't have a bunch of mountain ash coming up. That would be awful.
DeleteMy friend would move to Vancouver Island, just across from Vancouver.
Turns Jack didn't have a cold, he had fifth disease. The rash showed up on the weekend:)